life insurance death benefits?

My father passed away a couple of months ago. my mother is asking me for help in filling all legal docs, etc. I do not have a clue about this stuff and she is so gullible it scares me. Is there some one available for hire to assist her that will not take advantage of her?
bankers life insurance company will not send her a life insurance check without coming to her home. She told them she needs the money and is not interested in buying anything or putting the money into another account of some type. She has provided bankers life with all the necessary paper work. Why are they giving her a hard time? I do not have time to be there for her every move. She is physically and mentally capable, but has trust for anyone.

She and/or you need to hire an estate attorney. A good one will help you take care of everything associated with your fathers death.

Bankers Life is primarily an annuity company so I'm not surprised that they might try to convince her to buy an annuity with the life insurance benefit. I wonder if she went through the agent from Bankers that sold her the policy. He may be trying to get her to put her life insurance proceeds in an annuity or something so he can get another commission. You may need to contact the company directly and just tell them to send the lump sum or she will get your state department of insurance involved. If she has already filed the claim she just needs to tell the agent to back off and the company to send her money.